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Choosing a Memory Care Unit

Dad has Alzheimer's disease and has gotten to the point that he cannot live at home any longer. I need to find a good memory care residential unit, but could use some help. Any suggestions?

Choosing a good memory care residential unit for a loved one with Alzheimer's disease is a very important decision that requires careful evaluation and some homework.

Most memory care units, are housed within assisted living or nursing home facilities. At their best, they offer staff who are extensively trained in caring for people with dementia, individualized care that minimizes the use of dangerous psychotropic drugs, a home-like environment and activities that improve residents quality of life. At their worst, they can offer little more than a locked door.

Make a list: To identify some quality memory care residential units in your area, ask your dad's doctor for a referral. Use the Alzheimer's Association online tool at Make sure the facilities on your list are close to family members and friends who can visit often, because residents with frequent visitors usually receive better care.

Research your options: Once you have made a list, contact your local long-term care ombudsman (see This is a government official who investigates assisted living and nursing home com-plaints and can tell you which facilities have had problems in the past.

If you are looking at a memory care unit within a nursing home facility, use Medicare's nursing home compare tool ( This tool provides a five-star rating system.

Call the facilities: Once you have identified a few facilities, call them to find out if they have any vacancies, if they provide the types of services your mother needs, what they charge and if they accept Medicaid.

Tour your top choices: During your tour, notice the cleanness and smell of the facility. Is it homey and inviting? Does the staff seem responsive and kind to its residents? Also be sure to taste the food and talk to the current residents' family members, if available.

Find out about staff screening and training procedures, their turnover rate and the staff-to-resident ratio. The facility should have at least one staff member for every five residents.

Make sure the facility offers quality activities that can keep your mom engaged, even at night when she may be awake. Ask how they respond to residents who may wander or become aggressive. If the answer is locked doors and anti-psychotic drugs, that might be a red flag.

Because transitions can be unsettling for dementia suffers, make sure that your mother will be able to remain at the facility for the foreseeable future. Find out what, if any, health conditions might require your mother to leave the facility or move to a higher and more expansive level of care. It is also a good idea to make multiple visits to the facility, including an unscheduled visit at night or on weekends when the staff is likely to be stretched thin.

Paying for care: The national average costs for memory care within an assisted living facility is over $5,000 per month or over $7,500/month with nursing home care, but costs can vary widely depending on your location. Since Medicare does not cover long-term care, most residents pay for care from either personal savings, a long-term care insurance policy or through Medicaid (if available) once their savings are depleted.
Al Skorupski, PSP
Planned Giving Coordinator AEMP
(520) 326-0556